tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2578511951223362859.post4326104498671862118..comments2010-03-14T17:21:25.045-04:00Comments on Ry's Ramblings: Only after one thingDrekihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11035522983979695217noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2578511951223362859.post-45788579536878787752008-05-08T13:48:00.000-04:002008-05-08T13:48:00.000-04:00No. She just wanted to make me uncomfortable. And ...No. She just wanted to make me uncomfortable. And she succeeded.<BR/><BR/>Btw, what girly stuff?yewberryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14668792964858985080noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2578511951223362859.post-28303061706479356812008-05-08T07:43:00.000-04:002008-05-08T07:43:00.000-04:00Ugh. that's just dumb. Some people are against i...Ugh. that's just dumb. Some people are against it, some are in favor, some are apathetic- applies to everyone. Did she at least ask the girls, too?Drekihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11035522983979695217noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2578511951223362859.post-29416960529417018062008-05-08T04:39:00.000-04:002008-05-08T04:39:00.000-04:00I hated that assignmentI hated sitting in French l...<I>I hated that assignment</I><BR/><BR/>I hated sitting in French literature class, me and 10 girls, and the teacher saying: "as a male how do you feel about [insert: women's rights / feminism etc]"<BR/><BR/>argh.yewberryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14668792964858985080noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2578511951223362859.post-52504567850824998032008-05-07T16:27:00.000-04:002008-05-07T16:27:00.000-04:00Also, my door's covered with "What defines you as ...Also, my door's covered with "What defines you as a woman" (gag, I hated that assignment. Wish I'd thought to write "Ask an MtF"). Most of them are things about caring and being nice and junk. And while I'm sitting there going "Guys can be that too" I'm also doubting if enough of them are to matter.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2578511951223362859.post-30482954649544915242008-05-07T13:02:00.000-04:002008-05-07T13:02:00.000-04:00I know... logically, at least. But part of me sti...I know... logically, at least. But part of me still worries that people'll expect me to act like that or whatever. I've heard some pretty idiotic stuff about how you have to act to be a guy.<BR/><BR/>And then I'm not sure if half of the girly stuff I do is because I don't want to be seen as masculine or just because I'm like that.Drekihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11035522983979695217noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2578511951223362859.post-5532183401932697402008-05-07T01:58:00.000-04:002008-05-07T01:58:00.000-04:00Hey Ry! Being a guy or being masculine doesn't mea...Hey Ry! Being a guy or being masculine doesn't mean you have to incorporate the bad aspects of maleness into your character. there are so many nice guys out there who are comfortable with being male but are still real nice people, intelligent, educated, caring, gentlemanly... Don't beat yourself up over this. I know you'll find your way, one that will suit you and with which you will be happy.yewberryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14668792964858985080noreply@blogger.com