This kind of throws me into a bit of curiosity. I'm a bit effeminate. Not girly in the sense of wanting to be a girl or being a girl or anything, but I can't see myself as being all that masculine and there are a lot of gender roles I probably don't fit. On both sides.
So, could I be called Nahdlee even though I'm biologically female, mentally male, but a bit more effeminate than most guys might be (or more openly effeminate- I'm very comfortable with my sexuality)? o_O Or could I just say "dammit, here's the body I want. I ain't changing how I'm acting to fit what people think that body should act, and labels just give me a headache"