The ideal male is fully autonomous- financially, physically, and especially emotionally. He must be capable of standing alone, and he must struggle and even fight to protect what is his- property, reputation, and family. He must never reveal his vulnerability, and he must eschew all things feminine, including personality traits that are associated with femininity. -Men & Masculinities (under "Androgyny")
...at least the last part doesn't describe me? >_> Even when trying to avoid being too masculine I still manage to. *headsmack* Not sure how to feel about this.